So many craft/home/lifestyle blog authors seem to have such perfect lives! I know there's probably a lot they leave out, but it does seem that way. In my mind they wake up in a pink vintage nightgown, make the perfect latte that they sip daintily on their porch swing while eating a made-from-scratch strawberry crepe while managing their business and taking perfect, gallery quality photos of it all! And their kids are quietly playing with wooden toys, making art instead of watching TV and generally being cute (while wearing hand knit clothing). The dog is cute, the cat is cute, the flowers are blooming, every corner of their home is lovingly, artfully decorated and there are fresh flowers on the table. Which has a vintage tablecloth and is set with beautifully mismatched china, just so.
And then there's me. I do try! I try to write about positive, uplifting things about my life on my blog because I feel like nobody really likes to read about the crappy things. But I'm wondering if that's why I don't blog as often as I'd like to - sometimes I just can't get to that place of "birds are chirping, flowers are blooming, it's a beautiful day". Like today - I'm tired. Just plain tired. I have a stack of custom orders that I need to fill, boxes to ship, I didn't get to the laundry, I didn't make dinner (didn't even eat dinner!), I have people to email that I didn't get to, items to put on Etsy (sitting right by me on the desk, actually), didn't have neosporin for Lucy's poor foot (she scraped it pretty bad). Then there are the tantrums and bad mother/daughter days, all the many worries and fears and stresses that go along with being human, the insecurities, etc. So there are bits and pieces of life that I can take a pretty picture of and feel good about but there's also the blah everyday things and the awful things. How do you feel about it? How do you choose what to blog about and what to leave out? Do you think most bloggers are honest about their lives?